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Belief

Beliefs guide our choices, which ultimately create our results. I have always split my beliefs into two groups - the first group is a prison, my beliefs keep me trapped in negative thinking and then negative behaviour.  The second group is empowerment, my beliefs can be empowering and lead to courageous action and new possibilities for me. Beliefs are simple to explain, let's say you believe people are bad, so that leads you to living a guarded life closed off to everything life can offer leaving you lonely and bitter.  On the other hand if you believe people are good, you will continually, no matter what,  always see the best in them, developing friendships and relationships that make you feel connected.   Likewise, if you believe good things never happen to you, you will never make an effort.  But, if you believe the past doesn’t have to dictate your future, you will continually try different things and create possibilities for yourself.   S...

Life since June 2019...

I have not posted since June.  I have been busy with this and that - treatment, emergency appointments in London and getting a new rescue puppy.  I even found time to go to Ireland.  Slow Down Calm Down Stop Worrying I hear these sentences so often.  The only difference now is the sentences are not linked to work.  When I am not at work, I am focused on achieving this, that and the other.  I worry continually if my wife is ok, if Lindo is ok, if little India is ok.     Even though I get alot done, a huge percentage of my time is taken up by hospital, doctors and treatment. I leave work at a reasonable hour now, I have done my years of endless hours. I have family time now with my wife, Lindo and India, I never had this before.  I have time to wander, to read and achieve. I have time to listen, to watch and appreciate.   Life is more meaningful, I have time to unwind and to have fun.  I am learning to focus on...