To deserve

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Life is a journey. 

Often my life does not make sense.

I have learnt that life is not some narcissistic game.

I have learnt that life matters.

My life is filled with uncertainty, joy, struggles, surprises, disappointments, and rewards.

My life, some would say is not fair.

My condition, I hope does not define my life.

I deserve.

I deserve more.

I deserve to be happy like I am.

I deserve like everyone to be treated with respect. 

I deserve down time, to rest my mind, my body and my soul.  

I deserve to love and be loved.

I am loved by my wife and love her unconditionally.

I love my siblings and my two nephews with all my heart.

I deserve the right to dream as dreams are for everyone. 

At 40, I believe that I have earnt the right to have people around me who tell me the truth, lift me up, and want the best for me. 

I deserve to walk away from people who continually tell lies and play games with people.

I deserve to take time for myself.

I deserve to laugh as much as I want.

I deserve to not know. Until I know.

I deserve sometimes to be unsure or uncertain of how I feel about something or someone. 

I deserve to express my opinions, and I don’t deserve to be attacked for anything I say.

I deserve to be able to be me.

I deserve to stand up for what I believe in.

I deserve the right to change my beliefs, if my beliefs hurt me or hold me down. 

I am me.

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